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Money is emotional
Essays about our relationship with money — and what it means to us


Money Insights
Short, thoughtful notes about money, feelings, and how we choose to spend our time.


Must Be Nice
For my son's belated eighth birthday present, we took the family to Universal Studios. Four day passes cost $600. Four Express passes cost $1,120. Express lets you skip the line once on every ride. I've never really upgraded. I wait in line. I wasn't planning to start. But that morning I snuck into the bathroom of our hotel room, away from the stuffed animals flying past my face. I went back and forth in my head for five minutes. In thirty years, what will matter is whether w
4 days ago


I Hate To Wait
Every day at 4pm I opened the D.A.V.E. portal, copied a number, and pasted it into a very good-looking Google Doc. D.A.V.E. was our admin portal, named after the strongest monster in the game. Nothing fancy. Just the numbers that mattered, one day at a time: how much people paid and how many kept coming back. For the size of our team, it was bananas. Most of it could be entered whenever. Daily users couldn’t. At 4pm, midnight in London, the count rolled over. If I didn’t grab
Oct 1


The Thin Slice
Money Is Personal, Part 2 — San Quentin, September 5, 2026 At San Quentin, you leave your phone in the car in the guest parking lot, which for me is a trip back to 1995, "Biggie give me one more chance." The gravel pops under my Stan Smiths and I think to myself, it's Labor Day weekend. Why am I even here? I'm a financial advisor from Berkeley walking into a prison to talk about feelings with men whose average time served runs longer than my brand manager has been alive. Nobo
Sep 23


Be a Hitter
He taught me a lot about money. Most of it he never said out loud. I was small, and I had a good eye. In Little League that meant I could get on base laying off the bad pitches. It was a perfectly reasonable strategy for someone with a small strike zone. While my dad initially taught me this strategy, he ended up changing his mind. As I got older, from the stands, every time I got up: Be a hitter. Now. I didn’t fully understand what he meant then. I think I’m still figuring i
Jun 19


Don’t Sell Expectations
You can hit every goal you set at 15…and still miss the point.
Or you can find yourself in a rainforest, three generations deep, watching your 80-year-old mom zipline—and realize you're not missing anything.
Apr 19


The Vibecession: Affordability Feels Different Without Hope.
Affordability isn't just math. It's a story about the future. When hope collapses, the same life suddenly feels unaffordable. Lev Mandel on the vibecession from the inside.
Apr 15


The First Time I Felt Rich
What a Strongman Taught Me About Money I’ve been trying to trace my relationship with money back to its origin story, but the tape only rewinds so far. Six years old, maybe. That’s where things start to flicker into something I can almost hold. But the first scene that really sticks—the one with color and texture and a lesson baked into it—comes a few years later, when I was nine, maybe ten, in fourth grade. At the time, I was balling. Someone had just given me a turquoise ny
Mar 31


The Feeling of Expensive
Louis Vuitton let in a visual language it didn’t invent and didn’t fully control. The graffiti isn’t cleaned up. It still feels fast, slightly careless—like it came from somewhere else.
Mar 17


Heavy
Maybe there was a time when a credit card really meant something. Michael Lewis once wrote in The Money Culture about American Express and what it represented in the 1980s. Membership had its privileges — and you didn’t want to leave home without it. Snob appeal. Let’s rewind. American Express had been marketing itself as a luxury product since it introduced its charge card in 1958. In the beginning it really did solve a problem. If you were traveling — flying, staying in ho
Mar 11


The Scoreboard Never Turns Off and the Goalposts Always Move
From Gold to Data: The Psychology of Constant Comparison Status isn’t new. Hierarchies are ancient. Long before gold sat in vaults, it sat in tombs. Wealth has always been visible — and visibility has always signaled rank: who held power, who controlled resources, who offered protection. Human societies have never been flat. The difference today isn’t status. It’s velocity. Gold made status visible . Money made it measurable. Once status became numeric, it became scalable. O
Mar 1


Money Is Fungible
Markets run on fungibility, Humans don't. One dollar is identical to another. A share of stock is interchangeable with any other share of the same class. Markets function because money is fungible — memoryless, liquid, efficient. And yet, few things trigger more emotion. Investors freeze when markets fall. Employees hesitate to negotiate salaries. Families argue over inheritances. We label dollars as “vacation money” or “savings,” even though each bill carries equal spending
Feb 23
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