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Money is emotional
Essays about our relationship with money — and what it means to us


Money Insights
Short, thoughtful notes about money, feelings, and how we choose to spend our time.


Don’t Sell Expectations
You can hit every goal you set at 15…and still miss the point.
Or you can find yourself in a rainforest, three generations deep, watching your 80-year-old mom zipline—and realize you're not missing anything.
Apr 19


Affordability Feels Different Without Hope
Affordability is real. But just like globalization, it isn’t new. People have always stretched, risked, and rationalized their spending. What is new—what feels heavier—is the loss of hope. Because affordability isn’t just whether you can pay a bill. It lives in your expectations about the future. What will life look like? Will you be okay? I remember seriously considering leasing a car I couldn’t afford—not because I didn’t understand the numbers, but because I believed somet
Apr 15


The First Time I Felt Rich
What a Strongman Taught Me About Money I’ve been trying to trace my relationship with money back to its origin story, but the tape only rewinds so far. Six years old, maybe. That’s where things start to flicker into something I can almost hold. But the first scene that really sticks—the one with color and texture and a lesson baked into it—comes a few years later, when I was nine, maybe ten, in fourth grade. At the time, I was balling. Someone had just given me a turquoise ny
Mar 31


The Feeling of Expensive
Louis Vuitton let in a visual language it didn’t invent and didn’t fully control. The graffiti isn’t cleaned up. It still feels fast, slightly careless—like it came from somewhere else.
Mar 17


Heavy
Maybe there was a time when a credit card really meant something. Michael Lewis once wrote in The Money Culture about American Express and what it represented in the 1980s. Membership had its privileges — and you didn’t want to leave home without it. Snob appeal. Let’s rewind. American Express had been marketing itself as a luxury product since it introduced its charge card in 1958. In the beginning it really did solve a problem. If you were traveling — flying, staying in ho
Mar 11


The Scoreboard Never Turns Off and the Goalposts Always Move
From Gold to Data: The Psychology of Constant Comparison Status isn’t new. Hierarchies are ancient. Long before gold sat in vaults, it sat in tombs. Wealth has always been visible — and visibility has always signaled rank: who held power, who controlled resources, who offered protection. Human societies have never been flat. The difference today isn’t status. It’s velocity. Gold made status visible . Money made it measurable. Once status became numeric, it became scalable. O
Mar 1


Money Is Fungible
Markets run on fungibility, Humans don't. One dollar is identical to another. A share of stock is interchangeable with any other share of the same class. Markets function because money is fungible — memoryless, liquid, efficient. And yet, few things trigger more emotion. Investors freeze when markets fall. Employees hesitate to negotiate salaries. Families argue over inheritances. We label dollars as “vacation money” or “savings,” even though each bill carries equal spending
Feb 23
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